Nope, not allowed. When we engaging in negative story telling, be it internal or external, we train our brains to believe we are limited, powerless victims. You are hereby ordered, soldier, to wish in an extended, powerful, and perhaps even fancifull manner. You are specifically to concentrate on the impossible, the unlikely, and the overly ambitious.
Hope is our most powerful human trait. Do not kill your wishes, nurture them instead.
After all, the dreams that we know can never come true are the dreams we never need to fear to be disappointed by - and the ones we will never find good reason to give up.
What's the worst that can happen, we realize 'that can never be'? We knew that. Dream anyway. ;)
Whatever it is, I hope that you start to feel better about the situation. Occassionally we do have to focus on making ourselves happy. ( I know, pot, meet kettle....your BLACK!)
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I'm not making much sense, but thank you. :-)
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That's all. We're okay.
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Hope is our most powerful human trait. Do not kill your wishes, nurture them instead.
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After all, the dreams that we know can never come true are the dreams we never need to fear to be disappointed by - and the ones we will never find good reason to give up.
What's the worst that can happen, we realize 'that can never be'? We knew that. Dream anyway. ;)
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Do something nice for yourself. You not only get to have nice things, but the people who love you will feel better if they know you're feeling better.
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(This was intended to cheer you up, not dismiss your pain. Hope it worked)
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"You mustn't be afraid to dream a little larger darling"..
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does it help you to know i just sent gingerbread cookies to john? he should be getting them any day now.
if not, ignore this message in favor of more *hugs*.
-bs
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how does that sappoy Brooks and Dunn song put it?
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