soldiergrrrl: (Loved I not honor more...)
soldiergrrrl ([personal profile] soldiergrrrl) wrote2010-07-02 08:57 am

Sometimes I wish...

Well, it doesn't really matter what I wish.  It can't happen, so what's it matter?

[identity profile] lady-eliz.livejournal.com 2010-07-02 01:58 pm (UTC)(link)
It is never a bad thing to have dreams, sweetie. They help us get through the rough times.

[identity profile] soldiergrrrl.livejournal.com 2010-07-02 02:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks. It's just hard when your dreams upset other people, and you'd cut off your arm to keep that from happening...and it happens anyway.

I'm not making much sense, but thank you. :-)

[identity profile] soldiergrrrl.livejournal.com 2010-07-03 03:57 am (UTC)(link)
We talked about it baby, and we're fine. I was just really unhappy with the idea of the changes I'm making upsetting you.

That's all. We're okay.

[identity profile] technomage.livejournal.com 2010-07-02 02:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Nope, not allowed. When we engaging in negative story telling, be it internal or external, we train our brains to believe we are limited, powerless victims. You are hereby ordered, soldier, to wish in an extended, powerful, and perhaps even fancifull manner. You are specifically to concentrate on the impossible, the unlikely, and the overly ambitious.

Hope is our most powerful human trait. Do not kill your wishes, nurture them instead.

[identity profile] mcd000.livejournal.com 2010-07-02 04:02 pm (UTC)(link)
This.

After all, the dreams that we know can never come true are the dreams we never need to fear to be disappointed by - and the ones we will never find good reason to give up.

What's the worst that can happen, we realize 'that can never be'? We knew that. Dream anyway. ;)

[identity profile] seramariasjade.livejournal.com 2010-07-02 02:08 pm (UTC)(link)
I've found myself thinking that sort of thing a lot lately. I'm sorry you're going through a bad time.

[identity profile] momwolf.livejournal.com 2010-07-02 03:06 pm (UTC)(link)
What Technomage said-------->>>>>>>>

[identity profile] sinboy.livejournal.com 2010-07-02 03:08 pm (UTC)(link)
*sympathy*

Do something nice for yourself. You not only get to have nice things, but the people who love you will feel better if they know you're feeling better.

[identity profile] 3fgburner.livejournal.com 2010-07-02 03:23 pm (UTC)(link)
{{HUG}}

[identity profile] chaotic-nipple.livejournal.com 2010-07-02 03:27 pm (UTC)(link)
You WILL get that pony some day! ;-)

(This was intended to cheer you up, not dismiss your pain. Hope it worked)

[identity profile] spikywheel.livejournal.com 2010-07-02 04:25 pm (UTC)(link)
What do they say in the new movie w/ Leonardo?

"You mustn't be afraid to dream a little larger darling"..

[identity profile] boogieshoes.livejournal.com 2010-07-02 05:24 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs*

does it help you to know i just sent gingerbread cookies to john? he should be getting them any day now.

if not, ignore this message in favor of more *hugs*.

-bs

[identity profile] rixende.livejournal.com 2010-07-02 07:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Whatever it is, I hope that you start to feel better about the situation. Occassionally we do have to focus on making ourselves happy. ( I know, pot, meet kettle....your BLACK!)

how does that sappoy Brooks and Dunn song put it?

[identity profile] redc1c4.livejournal.com 2010-07-02 07:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Dream as big as you want to.

Count

[identity profile] sappersdad.livejournal.com 2010-07-03 07:51 pm (UTC)(link)
How many days till mid-tour